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The holiday season can be a time full of joy, cheer, parties, and family gatherings. But for many people it is a time of self-evaluation, loneliness, reflection on past failures, and anxiety about an uncertain future.

What causes holiday blues?

Many factors can cause the “holiday blues”: stress, fatigue, unrealistic expectations, financial constraint, commercialization, and the inability to be with one’s family and friends. The demands of shopping, parties, family reunions and house guests also contribute to feelings of tension. People may also develop other stress responses such as headaches, excessive drinking, over-eating and difficulty sleeping. Even more people experience a post-holiday let down after January 1. This can result from disappointments during the preceding months compounded by the excess fatigue and stress.

Can environment be a factor?

Studies show that some people suffer from seasonal affective disorder (SAD), which results from being exposed to fewer hours of sunlight as the days grow shorter during the winter months. Getting out into the sun (Phototherapy), is a treatment involving a few hours of exposure to intense light, and is shown to be effective in relieving depressive symptoms in patients with SAD. Other studies on the benefits of sunlight found that early morning sunlight can be effective in relieving seasonal depression. Some studies suggest that patients respond equally well to sunlight therapy when it is scheduled in the early afternoon. This has practical applications for antidepressant treatment because it allows the use of sunlight in the workplace as well as in the home.



• Keep expectations for the holiday season manageable. Try to set realistic goals for yourself. Pace yourself. Organize your time. Make a list and prioritize the important activities.

• Be realistic about what you can and cannot do. Don’t put the entire focus on just one day (i.e., Thanksgiving Day). Remember that it’s a season of holiday sentiment, and activities can be spread out to lessen stress and increase enjoyment.

• Remember the holiday season does not banish reasons for feeling sad or lonely; there is room for these feelings to be present, even if the person chooses not to express them.

• Leave “yesteryear” in the past and look toward the future. Life brings changes. Each season is different and can be enjoyed in its unique way. Don’t try to compare today with the “good ol’ days.”

• Do something for someone else. Try volunteering some of your time to help others.

• Enjoy activities that are free, such as taking a drive to look at holiday decorations, going window shopping or making a snowperson with children.

• Be aware that excessive drinking will only increase your feelings of depression.

• Try celebrating the holidays in a different way.

• Spend time with supportive and caring people. Reach out and make new friends, or contact someone you haven’t heard from in a while.

• Save time for yourself! Recharge your batteries! Let others share in the responsibility of planning activities.





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